• Jesus is so 93X
  • Tony Romo’s Smile
  • Dr. Quantum and Speaking Your Decisions
  • Listen to the Silence
  • The Human Faces of God (Thom Stark): Review
  • The Perennial Philosophy – Review
  • The Historical Christ and the Theological Jesus: Review
  • Ropes and Threads
  • Filling Time
  • Praying in the Whirlwind

Allison on Celebrities and the Need for Heros

kanye-west“If there is indeed an instinct to emulate what appears before us, then at present we must be emulating celebrities.  Observation confirms the inference.  Celebrities are trendsetters.  Who first models our hairstyles?  Our skirt lengths? Our eyewear?  Now this is not itself objectionable.  Nor do I protest that so many celebreities, stained by riotous living, are decadent, unworthy of emulation.  The problem is more fundamental.  It is that celebrities are not heroes – that is, they are, even when upright, too small to do us any good.  Celebrities are, as their numbers necessitate, average people.  This is why their sins – extramarital affairs, multiple divorces, drinking binges – are so humdrum.  They are just like us.  But to look at ourselves is to emulate ourselves, which means giving up ‘ought’ for ‘is.’  To look in a mirror does not expand one’s horizons.  We need rather to dream, which is what heroes and poets, not celebrities, make us do.

Christopher Lasch is right: celebrities are welcome in the culture of narcissism because the narcissistic individual lacks the courage and imagination to change the self into the not-self; and whereas this is precisely the helpful demand implicitly made by traditional heroes, celebrities are not imperatives.  With them there are no surprises, and we can be ourselves – a frightful notion, if one is honest.  Celebrities do not encourage the humble thing, which is the reasonable thing: finding our lives by losing them.  As Meister Eckhart observed, ‘Those who would be what they ought to be must stop being what they are.’

Where is the sanity in attending to the ordinary when the imperatives upon us – ‘Go the extra mile,’ ‘Do not let the left hand know what the right hand is doing,’ Be perfect in love, even as the heavenly Father is perfect’ – are so extraordinary?  The chief objection to Jesus’ moral injunctions has always been that they are too difficult: the Kingdom of God is Utopia.  As the Jew in Justin Martyr’s Dialogue with Trypho remarked, the Gospel teachings are ‘so wonderful and so great that I suspect no one can keep them.’

Leaving for another occasion defense of Jesus’ ever-receding moral ideal, one thing is evident: the pious require models of old-fashioned heroic proportion, and narratives that reveal the possibilities and obligations of being ‘in the law of Christ.’  If democracy, historical criticism, the hermeneutics of suspicion, an exaggerated belief in progress, our doubles about the value of adventure, and the incessant distractions of the mass media take these things from up, then the game is up – we have lost our souls.  These dragons that have captured our heroes must be either tamed or slain, so that our moral imaginations can, once again, be pressed down, shaken together, and running over.

Hebrews 11 says this: ‘They conquered kingdoms, enforced justice, received promises, stopped the mouths of lions, quenched raging fire, escaped the edge of the sword, won strength out of weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight.’  We should, against the modern habit, hold these for memories, that they might hold us.  Our amnesia should not be for heroes, whose virtues are our sunlight, but for their modern usurpers, who represent the ordinary condition of humanity, which so obviously tends toward sin and sloth and mediocrity.  Celebrities do not conquer kingdoms, enforce justice, receive promises, stop the mouths of lions, quench raging fires, escape the edge of the sword, win strength out of weakness, become mighty in war, put enemies to flight.  Why exchange gold for pyrite?”

- Dale Allison, The Luminous Dusk

South Family

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I want football season to be here.

It’s not yet.

This picture leads to a video about the team I help coach.

It’s awesome.

Huxley on Mortification

i_love_mortification_t_shirts-ree885eec746f42b59b161a5a629126fa_804gy_512“Our kingdom go” is the necessary and unavoidable corollary of “Thy kingdom come.”  For the more there is of self, the less there is of God.  The divine eternal fulness of life can be gained only by those who have deliberately lost the partial, separative life of craving and self-interest, of egocentric thinking, feeling, wishing, and acting.  Mortification or deliberate dying to self is inculcated with an uncompromising firmness in the canonical writings of Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism and most of the other major and minor religions of the world, and by every theocentric saint and spiritual reformer who has ever lived out and expounded the principles of the Perennial Philosophy.  But this “self-naughting” is never (at least by anyone who knows what he is talking about) regarded as an end in itself.  It possesses merely an instrumental value, as the indispensable means to something else.

- Aldous Huxley, The Perennial Philosophy

Let Your ‘Yes’ Be ‘Yes’

“Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’ be ‘No.’  Anything more than these is from the evil one.”
-Jesus

Because this is what happens when you don’t tell the truth…

A Doodle

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Am I getting into Art Therapy?

I misspelled generosity.  That’s uncharacteristic of my spelling prowess.

Cultivating Gratefulness

gratefulSo last year I got into reading a little positive psychology…the art of how to be happy.  Read a few books (like this one), browed a bunch of blog posts (like this one), watched a few documentaries, thought about it quite a bit.  Some of it is pure BS.  Some of it isn’t.  But it was an interesting little phase of thought that I’m not sure I’m out of yet.

One of the pieces of the positive psychology research surrounds cultivating gratefulness.  Learning to count your blessings, see silver linings, and ultimately alter your day to day, minute to minute, perception of life, from focusing on negatives to focusing on positives.

I think this is one of the aspects of positive psychology that isn’t BS.

I have a ridiculous amount of things to be grateful for, but I would say my default setting, the way my mind naturally works, is to focus on the negative aspects of my life.  I’ve always thought like a pessimist, and I have a tendency to see the problems in my life as all-encompassing.  Like my whole life is one big problem.  When I get to thinking that way I’m miserable and sad.  It sucks.  So I’m trying to stop that.

One of the ways that you can supposedly do that is to set aside specific times to count your blessings.  Literally list them off, maybe out loud, maybe on paper, maybe in your mind.  I have been trying to list 10 things I’m grateful for in the morning and 10 things before bed.  I usually forget to do it before bed.  But I’m trying.  So I’m going to take a little time right now and list off some things that I am grateful for.  Things that I take for granted but are awesome.  Things that I should consider blessings from God.

1. I have hot water in the morning.  Every morning.  I can rub it on my body.
2. I have a shelter that keeps me warm in the winter and cool in the summer.
3. I have a bunch of really good friends who sometimes bake me things and always make me laugh.
4. My mom and dad love me.
5. I have a mom and dad that I actually know.
6. My brother and sister in law are awesome people.
7. I ate Chipotle yesterday.  I can eat Chipotle whenever I want.  And I can get chips.
8. Happy hours exist.  I can get beer there.
9. I get summers off to do whatever the heck I want.  Like go to happy hours.
10. I can run around and play basketball.  My quickness makes up for a poor 3 point shot.
11. I was able to afford to go to college and I went to an awesome college.
12. I have a sexy Honda Civic.
13. I will probably never be hungry for an extended time unless it’s by choice.
14. My grandma sends me fudge on Valentine’s Day.  Tasty tasty fudge.
15. I go to an awesome church.
16. I had a chance to talk to a kid about his credit situation and graduating high school today.  Maybe it made a difference.
17. I have meaningful employment.
18. Dogs exist and are bearers of unconditional love.
19. The sun is out and it shines on me.  It makes my face warm and releases endorphins in my brain.
20. I have really good neighbors.
21. Apples grow on trees and we can eat them.  And we can genetically engineer Honeycrisps.
22. I have leisure time to read mind-bending literature.
23. I have my choice in what to do with the rest of my life.
24. I have a wide variety of teas to brew at will.
25. I’m going to go make some tea right now.

Twenty-five seems like a good place to stop.  I want to cultivate gratefulness.  It doesn’t mean I’ll never be sad.  It doesn’t mean that I won’t have days where my whole life seems like a problem.  But it helps.  It helps me fulfill the mission of loving people.  Because getting lost in your own crap makes you depressed and self-centered, unable to care about anything but you.  Living a grateful life opens me up to loving, serving, and building up others.  And that, I have decided, is what it’s all about.

Used this TED video in class the other day.  The whole thing might be a little bit overdone, but still…take a look.  And cultivate gratfulness…

 

The Almond Tree

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“I said to the almond tree,
‘Sister, speak to me about God,’
and the almond tree blossomed.”

- Nikos Kazantakis

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Someone

someone

Today someone was hit by a car.  The car drove away and the person died.
Today someone’s child was shot in a park.  It was a stray bullet.  They rushed him to the hospital, but the child didn’t make it.
Today someone is taking care of her husband who doesn’t recognize her because of Alzheimer’s.  She will take care of him for 20 more years, and he will never again know who she is.
Today someone watched their child starve to death.  Literally, they watched the child as he died because there wasn’t enough food for everyone in the village to survive.
Today someone put a gun to their head because they felt unloved.

Today a turtle got run over on the road.

Today someone was beaten by their spouse.
Today someone committed adultery.  His wife knows but lives with it because she doesn’t want to be alone.
Today someone was asked for a divorce.
Today someone made the decision to let his child grow up knowing only his mother.  That child will live an angry life.
Today a young girl was raped by her uncle.  She will be raped again tomorrow.
Today someone found out that they will be blind in a year because of a degenerative eye condition.
Today someone lost both their legs.
Today someone told their child they were stupid.  The child believed her.
Today someone will spend the night outside.  The wind chill will be 5 degrees below zero.  They are wearing pants soiled with urine.  They ate half of a sandwich they found in a garbage can yesterday.

Lent is a time to mourn.  There are things to mourn. 

 

C.S. Lewis on Pride

better“According to Christian teachers, the essential vice, the utmost evil, is Pride.  Unchastity, anger, greed, drunkenness, and all that, are mere fleabites in comparison: it was through Pride that the devil became the devil: Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind.

Does this seem exaggerated?  If so, think it over.  I pointed out a moment ago that the more pride one had, the more one disliked pride in others.  In fact, if you want to find out how proud you are the easiest way is to ask yourself, ‘How much do I dislike it when other people snub me, or refuse to take any notice of me, or shove their oar in, or patronize me, or show off?’  The point is that each person’s pride is in competition with every one else’s pride.  It is because I wanted to be the big noise at the party that I am so annoyed at someone else being the big noise.  Two of a trade never agree.  Now what you want to get clear is that Pride is essentially competitive - is competitive by its very nature – while the other vices are competitive only, so to speak, by accidentPride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man.  We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good looking, but they are not.  They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better looking than others.  If everyone became equally rich, or clever, or good looking there would be nothing to be proud about.  It is the comparison that make you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest…

The Christians are right: it is Pride which has been the chief cause of misery in every nation and every family since the world began.  Other vices may sometimes bring people together: you may find good fellowship and jokes and friendliness among drunken people or unchaste people.  But pride always means enmity – it is enmity.  And not only enmity between man and man, but enmity to God…

Do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man he will be what most people call ‘humble’ nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, swarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody.  Probably all you will think about him is that he seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him. If you do dislike him it will be because you feel a little envious of anyone who seems to enjoy life so easily.  He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all.

If anyone would like to acquire humility, I can, I think, tell him the first step.  The first step is to realize that one is proud.  And a biggish step too.  At least, nothing whatever can be done before it.  If you think you are not conceited, it means you are very conceited indeed.”

- C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity: “The Great Sin.”

Purity of Heart is to Will One Thing

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.  Cleanse your hands you sinners; and purify your hearts you double-minded.”
- James

“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” 
- Jesus

And speaking of Kierkegaard….

glowing-heartThat last quote about the seasons of life comes from his “Purity of Heart is to Will One Thing.“  I read a couple of chapters from it a few weeks ago.  Why can’t I read whole books anymore?  Probably because I spend so much time on the mind-altering electronic drug we call the Internet.

But in the book, Kierkegaard explores James 4:8, which links an impure heart to “double-mindedness.”  What Kierkegaard seems to take this to mean is that when our hearts are impure, our motives are always multiple.

I try to be nice to the people that rent rooms in my house.  Am I doing this because I care about them or because I don’t want to go through the hassle of finding somebody new to fill a spot?  I go to a party and mingle.  Am I doing this because I want to catch up with old friends and acquaintances and really know how they are, or am I more worried about how I come off to the people around me?  Maybe I just want to be seen as impressive in some way.  I give money to a charity.  Am I doing this because I think it’s a worthwhile cause, or do I just want to ease an unsettled conscience?

Why do we do what we do?  Our motives are a guessing game, even to ourselves in our most introspective moments.  I don’t know the mixture of motives that lie beneath the surface of why I act a certain way around my roommates, go to a particular party, or give money to a charity.  But, although I wish it were otherwise, I know they are “double.”  I know that at least part of my reason for doing all of the things I do is an unhealthy self-interest. A desire to look out for my own good above the good of others.  And most of the time, more specifically, a desire to feed my Ego.  Pride.

For Kierkegaard, purity of heat is to will one thing: “the good.”  Purity of heart is to give up seeking your own benefit over the benefit of others.  To lose your ego to the point that you literally do not will anything for yourself, but only the good of the world.   Kierkey might say that your will and God’s will become one.  That is purity of heart, and the pure of heart will see God.

But is it just an idealistic dream that this can be achieved?

I honestly don’t know.

“Oh, Thou that givest both the beginning and the completion, give Thou victory in the day of need so that neither a man’s burning wish nor his determined resolution may attain to, may be granted unto him in the sorrowing of repentance: to will only one thing.”